1:1 coaching for building a life that actually feels like yours
Clarity is the leverage most people never find. We do the work to uncover yours.
Join the waitlistIs this you?
You've been performing someone else's version of success and calling it progress.
The people around you think you're thriving. That makes it harder to say something's missing.
You keep coming back to the same thought: there should be more to this.
You're scared that admitting what you feel means blowing everything up.
What makes this different
Most coaches add. This work subtracts.
Remove, don't add
Inherited beliefs, borrowed definitions, noise. We clear it out.
Your truth, not someone else's
No templates. No borrowed frameworks. We start from what's actually true for you.
The whole person
Career, identity, body, routines, energy. It's all connected.
What you actually get
During sessions
- 60-90 min video calls, typically weekly
- We follow what comes up, not a script
- Concrete decisions when you're ready
Between sessions
- Reflection prompts and experiments to try
- Reading or resources when something fits
- Async check-ins when something can't wait
The kinds of things we work on
/ Career clarity and decision-making
/ Redefining what success actually means for you
/ Personal systems: health, routines, knowledge
/ Life design that matches who you actually are
What shifts
Real examples from real engagements.
A single conversation
He'd turned down a $300K role and couldn't stop second-guessing the decision. Weeks of paralysis, every option framed as right or catastrophic.
We named the pattern. The paralysis dissolved. He stayed the course, but for the first time it was a clear choice, not a default.
The long game
Career, fitness, nutrition, relationships. Not a crisis, but a fog. Over months we removed what wasn't serving her and rebuilt from what was true.
She says it changed her life across multiple dimensions. Not because of a plan, but because we removed enough noise for her to hear herself again.
Who you're working with
Started as an engineer. Left within a year. Started a company. Twelve years since: building, operating, and advising alongside 100+ founders.
The thread through everything: helping people strip back to what actually matters.
Walking away from roles that looked right on paper when the alignment wasn't there. Going from overweight to 8% body fat when the body I'd settled for stopped feeling like mine. Rebuilding my days from scratch when the routines I'd inherited stopped serving me. Same approach each time: strip back to first principles, subtract what doesn't belong, then rebuild from what's actually true.
This isn't for you if
You want someone to tell you what to do
You're looking for accountability coaching or a productivity system
You want a quick fix, not a real conversation
What this asks instead: honesty, patience, and the willingness to sit with what comes up.
How it works
1:1
Just you and me
Tailored
No template or curriculum
No contract
Pause or stop anytime
FAQ
How is this different from therapy? +
Therapy looks backward. This work looks forward: decisions, systems, action. We also go into domains therapy doesn't: career, health, daily structure, knowledge. Many clients do both. They complement each other.
What happens after I apply? +
I read every application personally. If it's a good fit, I'll email you to set up an initial conversation.
What's the format? +
Video calls. 60-90 minutes. Most people start weekly and adjust from there.
Do you work on business and life, or just one? +
Both. They're not separate. The work always starts with you, not a business plan.
What does it cost? +
I'll share details on investment after we connect. Every engagement is different.
Start a conversation
I work with five people at a time. If this resonates, tell me where you are and what you're working through.